Biwi apne shohar se ladai kyo karti hai ? Farman e Hazrat Ali Radhi Allhau anhu

اعوذ باللہ من شیطان الرجیم بسم اللہ الرحمن الرحیم
women rights in Islam
Biwi apne shohar se ladai kyo karti hai ? Farman e Hazrat Ali Radhi Allhau anhu aaj ham aapko btane ja rahe hai, kyo biwiya apne shohar se bagawat karti hai, or kyo shohar ka sukun us se chin jata hai, Miya Biwi me ladai hona ek aam baat hoti hai, par jab biwi ladai jyada karne lage to aadmi ko samajh jana chahiye ki kisi na kisi se kuch galti hui hai, isliye biwi ne bagawat karna shuru kar diya hai.


Hazrat Imam Ali Alaihissalam ki khidamt me ek shaksh aaya or kahne laga "Ya Ali" aane wale waqt me ghar me sukun or barbadi ka sabse bada sabab kya hoga, to Hazrat Imam Ali Alaihissalam ne farmaya e shaksh ghar ki besukuni or barbadi ka sabse bada sabab Biwi ki Bagawat hogi, us shaksh ne kaha Ya Ali Aurat Bagawat kyo kregi, Aurat ki Bagawat isliye hogi ki unke shohar unke Haq ko dena band kar denge or unke Haq ko pamal karne lgenge. Apni biwiyo ko ghulam samjhne lgenge or unko beizzat karne lgenge, oe ese hi insan apne hatho se apne sukun ko khatam kar dega.


Us shaksh ne kaha "Ya Ali" Aurat ke konse Haq Mard par wajib hai, To "Hazrat Imam Ali Alaihissalam" ne farmaya -

1 - Mard jab bhi Aurat se baat kare Akhlaq se baat kare, uski izzat kare, usse pyar kare or kabhi bhi kisi ke samne beizzat na kare, or ji baat samjhana chahe use pyar se samjhae or usko koi baat samjhani ho to akele me samjhae.


2 - Allah tala ne Aurat ko Ehasas ki mitti se banaya hai, isliye Mard ko chahiye ki hamesha Aurat ki choti choti baato par uska shukriya ada karta rhe, uske chote chote acche kamo ki tarif karta rahe, baar baar apni Mohabbat or Sacchai ka izhar karta rahe, tai Aurat hamesha apne Mard ki taraf maail ho or kisi or mard ki taraf maail na ho.

3 - Mard ko chahiye ki ghar ke kamo me apni aurto par raham kare, or ghar ke kamo me uska sath de, or uska hath batae.


4 - Apni Biwi ka kabhi mazak na udae or jo jo baate use na aati ho uski talim usko de, is tarah se kabhi bhi Aurat ko kamtari ka ehsas na ho.

5 - Apni Biwi ka khyal rakhe, uska ehsas kare or har jaruriyat e jindagi jo Biwi apne liye chahti hai usko pura karne ki koshish karta rahe.

A shakhs dhyan rakhna jab Mard apne yah 5 Haq acchi tarah se pura karta rhega to Aurte/Biwiya kabhi bhi gafil nahi hongi, or apne shohar ki ita'at karengi, or hamesha apne shohar se pyar krengi.


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